On Kindness and Making a Difference

As we bring the celebration of Diversity Week at MCCC to a close. I wanted to share with my readers some excerpts of a talk I gave earlier this week. I was honored and privileged to have been invited again this year to speak at the MLK Day Celebration event at La-Z-Boy headquarters. I was the speaker last year and focused on Dr. King and community service. This year I focused on kindness and making a difference.

I quote and paraphrase parts of my talk below:

“As we observe Dr. King’s birthday as a holiday, I encourage all of us to observe it as a day of reflection and a day of service, i.e. “a day on, not a day off”. On campus it is ‘a day off for a week on’”

Dr. King once said, “Life’s most persistent and urgent question is: What are you doing for others?”

How can you make your corner of the world just a little brighter for other people?

Be kind, care. Here are few quotes about kindness and making a difference

“Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.”-
Mark Twain

“Be kind to unkind people – they need it the most.” – Ashliiegh Brilliant

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” – Leo F. Buscaglia

“Kindness is never wasted. If it has no effect on the recipient, at least it benefits the bestower.” – S. H. Simmons

“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“The purpose of life is to contribute in some way to making things better.” – Robert F. Kennedy

What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world is and remains immortal. – Albert Pine

“You have to do the right thing. It may not be in your power, may not be in your time, that there’ll be any fruit. But that doesn’t mean you stop doing the right thing. You may never know what results come from your action. But if you do nothing, there will be no result.” – Mahatma Gandhi

“I have one life and one chance to make it count for something. My faith demands that I do whatever I can, wherever I am, whenever I can, for as long as I can with whatever I have to try to make a difference.” – Jimmy Carter

“We can do no great things; only small things with great love.” – Mother Theresa

“Service to others is the rent you pay for living on this planet.” – Marian Wright-Edelman

I provided them with the following advice:

  • Think beyond just you and yours.
  • Find a cause that you so believe in that you are willing to dedicate hands-on time to it.
  • Find organizations that you are willing to support financially and just give.
  • If you have a special talent, share it with others.

I told several stories about kindness and making a difference.  Most of the stories were personal and involved kindness that others had shown toward me.  I then asked them to write down how they were making a difference for others and how they could do more for others. Several individuals reported out to the group.

Special thanks to Sue Vanisacker of La-Z-Boy for inviting me to share my thoughts with them. I truly hope it makes a difference.




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